It was my wife who introduced spanking into our relationship.  After an argument, she pulled her pants down and laid across my lap.  She said later after an argument she felt worse.  After a spanking, she felt better.  About a year later, she said just spanking didn’t give her the redemption she needed. I started sending her to the corner to think about what she did.  She exposed her red bottom.  I asked her why.  She said she needed to be shamed and humbled to feel redemption.

As the husband, I knew it was my responsibility to decide her punishments. That’s when I started supervising the redoing of sloppy housework with her red bottom in the air.  Not only was it effective, but she was also happier after the initial remorse.

It didn’t take an Einstein to see my wife needed punishment that involved what a lot of people would call humiliation.

Yes, I punish her with diapers. I put her in them to keep her from getting up in the middle of the night and waking me up. She was so embarrassed I knew they would be an effective punishment. But I only use them for serious infractions like blatant disobedience when she wore pants after I told her more pants and she wore them anyway.  And once she was talking to man too long at a party at our to make me jealous.

I took her to the bedroom, spanked her and put her diaper and rubber pants. Then I led her back to the party, said it was past her bedtime and had her say goodnight.  I worried it was too severe but she didn’t think so.  She said she had embarrassed me and acted like a child so I embarrassed her and treated her like a child and embarrassed her.

I forbade pants because skirts are more convenient for punishment among other things.  I stopped letting her associate with non-DD women because they told her she was abused and it upset her.  She has a bedtime or she will stay up too late and be cranky. The playpen is for timeouts and more comfortable than tiny chairs our friends use.

I do not require her to call me Master and Sir.  I love it and the same goes for asking permission to leave the room. Her eagerness to show her submission and devotion moves and humbles me.

I do not yell at or insult my wife. I adore her.  Even after the exercise was over, I have continued to bathe and dress her  because we both enjoy and she deserves to be pampered

I hope all DD husband’s feel like this.  They should.