The Joy and Responsibility of  Domestic Discipline

While I was still allowed to hang out with my mom DD friends, they asked me if I got to punish Sean when he was wrong

No.  Because, like most people in charge, he punishes himself for both of us.  While this lifestyle requires ongoing devotion and commitment on both sides, Lion’s share of the responsibility goes to the husband.  Mine agonizes over what punishment will be most effective without causing me to resent him.

But I have never once resented him before, during or after any punishment.  I’ve been embarrassed when he’s chosen to do so in front of others.  But, again, it’s effective.

And mostly I feel ashamed and sorry my husband had to punish me like when he saw me in pants though I’m not allowed.  I felt so guilty, I’d have taken them off Main street.

I know he derives no pleasure from punishing me, except for thinking I look cute in a diaper.  I know he puts a great amount of thought in my punishments as to why and what will work.  I asked him how he felt when he was punishing me.  He said like he was doing his job.

And he has a gift for choosing the right one.

If I didn’t have a bedtime, I would stay up late and be cranky the next day.  But I know if I do, I’ll be going to bed early for a week. If I didn’t get put on restriction from my phone, I would go over my minutes every month.  Pants make it harder to spank me. And my non-DD friends just upset me.

The best thing to me is, after a spanking, corner time, or being forced to redo my housework under his supervision is I am cleansed of my guilt and him of his anger. We have no resentments, old issues or grudges.

I think that’s why we are the happiest couples I know with the best sex life who’ve been married as long as we have.

Of course, no couple is perfect.  And there was one thing he did I disliked intensely.  He had to go out of town and asked the wife of our DD counsellor to basically babysit me.  She made sure I did my chores, monitored my phone time and sent me to bed early.  She wasn’t allowed to punish me in any way that involved contact.  But I was instructed to obey her as though she were him.

I told him how I felt when he got home.

He asked me how many spankings, how much corner and diaper time I would have coming to me when he got home without supervision.

And I knew, like every other policy and punishment, he put thought and prayer into it.  He does his job and he does it wet. I derive no pleasure from the punishments.  But I do take pride, especially the humbling ones in front of others, in being obedient and submissive my husband however far I have to do it.

I take even more pride in hearing him say that I am the best wife in the world who among other reasons, does what she’s told. It takes discipline, dedication and caring commitment.

Oh, but it is so worth it