Question:

We had to move and now in a much hollow house also my father with dementia came to live with us my husband is worried about the kids and my dad hearing the spankings how can we get around this ?

Answer:

My advice involves considering a cane-type implement. Many sellers offer these in various materials, including rattan, plastic, carbon fiber, and rubber, all known for their minimal noise output. The only distinct sound these canes produce is a sharp whoosh immediately before impact, which delivers a sharp sting.

It is crucial to use these implements with CAUTION. I recommend that the Head of Household (HoH) proceed with care initially until proficiency with the chosen implement is gained. It could be beneficial for the HoH to test the cane on his hand and thighs to become familiar with the sensation and potential damage that can occur if misused.