A Good Example Of A Domestic Discipline Lifestyle Working
I was talking to a friend, the other day about winter approaching, both our wives have to drive early mornings, and in the evenings he mentioned that his wife had a bad habit of setting off without having charged her phone. Phone charging has also recently been an issue with my wife forgetting to charge her phone. Potentially this could be dangerous when out on a dark winter morning with a broken down car and a flat battery on your phone. My wife knows it is for safety reasons she must always charge her phone to call for assistance should something go wrong.
Here are examples of how a non-DD practising couple and a practising DD couple deal with the problem.
Non-Practising DD Couple
The husband moans at his wife for not charging her phone and explains how dangerous this could be if she needs to call for assistance.
The wife responds with “Yes OK I will do it next time” but has not taken this issue seriously, next time the husband reminds her again, this time she s him “Stop moaning I will do it”, the next time the husband gets angry. An argument follows, now the wife is determined not to charge her phone.
Eventually, the wife needs to call for assistance and does not charge on her phone; she can not call for help or let her husband know what is happening. She could be in danger, and he will be left at home, worrying about why his wife is late.
A Good Example Of A Domestic Discipline Lifestyle Working
The husband calmly tells his wife that she must charge her phone every evening and explains that is is a matter of personal safety and consideration for others. If she forgets again, there will be consequences. The wife responds with “Yes, OK, I am sorry.”
The next time she forgets, the husband will set a punishment for the infraction and explain to her why she will get punished.
After being punished, the wife will have learned a valuable lesson that she will not forget in a hurry and make sure she charges her phone every evening. There is no arguing, should the wife need to call for assistance and let her husband know what is going on, and everyone is happy.
What type of marriage do you want, the argumentative one that shows little consideration for others or the loving disciplined one where the wife knows she is loved and will be able to call for assistance should she break down.
