DD Examples

The Hidden Broken Coffee Cup

A short while ago I noticed one of my favourite coffee cups was not on its stand, I hunted high and low for it, but could not find it anywhere. At the time, it did not occur to me that it could be broken as my wife had never mentioned it to me. I then forgot about it till I was putting the bin bags out can and noticed a bit of white pot in the bottom of the bin, further investigation revealed that my cup was broken and my wife had tried to hide it from me by placing in in a carrier bag in the bin bag.

The cup being smashed was not a significant issue accident happen all the time, and it was only a cup after all. Still, the issue was that my wife had deliberately hidden this broken cup from me. For some reason, she thought it was better to say nothing and hide the cup.

She had chosen to turn a minor accident into and the issue of deceit which was a primary rule-breaker in our marriage. We do not deceive each other if one of us does something we own up to it. We never try to cover it up.

Had she been upfront nothing would have been saying the cup would have been replaced with a new one after all accidents happen all the time.

Now we had an issue of deceit to deal with, and that was not acceptable. I left it a week to give my wife time to own you I even mentioned we seemed to be one cup down, but she chose to say nothing. Sunday morning after breakfast, I asked her to sit at the kitchen table and said I had something I would like to discuss with her and placed the broken cup on the table.

I asked her if she would like to explain why I found this in the bin hidden and why she had chosen not to tell me about it. She said at the time she thought it was easier than owning up. I reminded her that it was just a broken cup and not a problem, but the problem was the deceit, which was unacceptable and deserved a punishment spanking.

I instructed her to drop her panties lift her skirt bend over the kitchen table as she was going to get six with the large wooden spoon I had in the kitchen for spankings.

I instructed her to count them out as I did them with an I am sorry after each one. I then applied six of the best with the wooden spoon.

The punishment was not for breaking the cup that was an everyday accident life happens. The punishment was given for the deceit and not owning up to what had happened. Deception has no place in a marriage and needs to be dealt with firmly. Left this behaviour breaks down the trust and respect in marriage, and finally, the love will fade.

The Head of the House should lead by example and always be open and honest. He cannot expect his Taken in Hand to follow these rules and standards if he is not worthy of her submission.

Sunburn Will Earn You A Punishment

Is sunburn worth the risks?

Sunburn will earn you a punishment.
Your HoH is responsible for your health and wellbeing; it is their duty to ensure that you do not put your health at risk.
If you spend too much time in the sun or don’t apply sun cream, then you deserve to be punished. Nothing will bring you to your senses than a well-spanked sunburnt bottom.

Sunburn may seem like a minor infraction, but it can have devastating consequences on your lives years later. Always apply sun cream and do not spend too much time in direct sun.

Getting sunburnt falls under one of the 4D’s – Putting you in danger.
When you put yourself in danger, such as getting sunburnt, speeding, etc., your HoH has to teach you that this is unacceptable.
If you become unwell, you will not be capable of doing your duties, and you will be letting your HoH down.

As HoH never forget how important date nights are

As HoH you should never forget how important date nights are

As HoH, you should never forget how important date nights are.

The Domestic Discipline lifestyle is not just about rules. Following them, you have to remember that you live this lifestyle to improve your relationship and bring you and your partner closer together.

You still need to keep the romance alive and woe your wife, you need to make sure that she knows you love her and value and appreciate her.

Do not start taking her for granted.

Set a time table for regular date nights, where it is just you and your partner. Spend some quality time together, enjoying a meal, a trip to the cinema, a walk, or do the things you used to do when you were dating.

The most satisfying part of spanking your TiH

The most satisfying part of spanking your TiH is knowing that after you have disciplined your wife and wiped the slate clean your wife will be guilt and stress-free.

Often when your TiH acts up, gets sassy or breaks one of your rules because they are stressed. They have reached a stage where everyday things are getting on top on them, or they are struggling to cope with an issue, and as a result, they break a rule, get sassy and act up. They require a reset; in other words, they need a spanking.
When you issue a punishment spanking and see it through and press their reset button, the spanking release all the pent-up stress.
They will not enjoy the spanking and will be very emotional afterwards. But once your wife has calmed down, she will feel refreshed, relaxed, and happy.

As HoH never neglect your TiH

As HoH, you must take care of your TiH, it is their place to submit to and serve you, but you have a duty of care.

Please do not make the mistake of taking advantage of your position; they are not your slave who you can take for granted. It would help if you never forgot how special the gift of submission is.

Give your TiH a day off and treat them to a massage, pamper day at the beauty salon.

Surprise her with flowers, meals out or even just a spontaneous hug and “I love You.”

You do not have to buy her gifts continually; that is not what she wants, and she wants you to acknowledge her efforts and show how much you appreciate and lover her.

How to react to other peoples views of your domestic discipline lifestyle

How to react to other peoples views of your lifestyle

Never be ashamed or embarrassed to let others know you are happy to serve your HoH.

Submitting to your husband/HoH is nothing to be ashamed of, and you should never feel embarrassed to let others know you are happy to submit to and serve him.

A life of submission does not mean that you are a weak person it takes a strong person to submit and surrender control to their partner.

Hold your head up high and let the world see how happy you are, the people that will criticise you will be the ones that are jealous of the happiness you have found in your relationship.

Remember It is your life and choice, and you are free to live it as you please, and other people should respect your rights to live as you want.

A Good Example Of A Domestic Discipline Lifestyle Working

I was talking to a friend, the other day about winter approaching, both our wives have to drive early mornings, and in the evenings he mentioned that his wife had a bad habit of setting off without having charged her phone. Phone charging has also recently been an issue with my wife forgetting to charge her phone. Potentially this could be dangerous when out on a dark winter morning with a broken down car and a flat battery on your phone. My wife knows it is for safety reasons she must always charge her phone to call for assistance should something go wrong.

Here are examples of how a non-DD practising couple and a practising DD couple deal with the problem.

Non-Practising DD Couple

The husband moans at his wife for not charging her phone and explains how dangerous this could be if she needs to call for assistance.
The wife responds with “Yes OK I will do it next time” but has not taken this issue seriously, next time the husband reminds her again, this time she s him “Stop moaning I will do it”, the next time the husband gets angry. An argument follows, now the wife is determined not to charge her phone.

Eventually, the wife needs to call for assistance and does not charge on her phone; she can not call for help or let her husband know what is happening. She could be in danger, and he will be left at home, worrying about why his wife is late.

A Good Example Of A Domestic Discipline Lifestyle Working

The husband calmly tells his wife that she must charge her phone every evening and explains that is is a matter of personal safety and consideration for others. If she forgets again, there will be consequences. The wife responds with “Yes, OK, I am sorry.”

The next time she forgets, the husband will set a punishment for the infraction and explain to her why she will get punished.

After being punished, the wife will have learned a valuable lesson that she will not forget in a hurry and make sure she charges her phone every evening. There is no arguing, should the wife need to call for assistance and let her husband know what is going on, and everyone is happy.

What type of marriage do you want, the argumentative one that shows little consideration for others or the loving disciplined one where the wife knows she is loved and will be able to call for assistance should she break down.

Discipline Spankings and Family Life

Spankings should never be carried out in front of children or given to children.
Domestic Discipline is an agreement between consenting adults only.

Discipline spankings when you have family around you can be very difficult but possible with a little care and thought.

It is essential to discipline as soon as possible when one of your rules get broken, a good HoH has to show consistency, or they will look weak,

and a wife will naturally take advantage of a weak HoH.

Remember one of the reasons for living a DD lifestyle is to stop shouting and arguments in the home.
Any problems should get dealt with quickly and with as little disruption to family life as possible.

As our children got older, it got harder to practice domestic discipline lifestyle; modern life means they spend more time in the family home, tucked away in bedrooms playing computer type games etc.
We now have adopted this method of dealing with Discipline while the children are in the house; my wife will bend over the kitchen table where I can quickly gain access to her bottom for spanking,

I use regular kitchen implements like wooden spoons and spatulas, these do not have to be hidden and can be kept readily at hand for quick spankings, they are useful, reasonably quiet and low cost to replace when they get broken.
After giving a spanking, I send my wife to the bathroom or bedroom until she has stopped crying and regained her composure without the children knowing what is happening.