Question:
I married two days ago.
My mother explained me that from now on my husband will take care of me and my discipline.
I was disciplined by my mother, by my (female) babysitters, and by nuns in our Church.
I have never been disciplined by a male person.
I really don’t know what to expect!
Answer:
You need to talk to your husband and discuss what he expects from his wife, what the rules will be rules, and the consequences if you break them.
You need a list of rules written down so you can refer to them as you learn them.
Things to discuss are:
when would he like to eat,
what types of meals does he like,
how does he want his house kept
how does he want you to dress
household budget
When it comes to discipline, you should discuss the punishments that will get used if you break a rule.
The conversation is two-sided; in the end, you and your husband should be happy with the agreement.
Domestic discipline is a lifestyle that both partners choose to live.
You have the right to refuse to live this lifestyle and not give your consent for him to punish you.