Never Forget How Important The Aftercare is

As HoH, it is your place to provide aftercare after you have given a punishment.

You will need to learn when to give your TIH alone time to calm down and when it is best to hold them and tell them you love them.
Two punishments will never be the same, and you will have to react each time differently.  Sometimes your TIH will not want you near them after the punishment session. They could be very emotional and are entitled to have time to process why they punished and how they feel about what they did to earn the punishment.

Other times they will want is to be held and told how cherished they are, sometimes they may even need you to talk to them and explain why their behaviour was unacceptable and that you had no option but to discipline them.

Once a punishment has administered, the slate should then be wiped clean, and there should be no need to keep bringing up the issue.