Should I discipline my husband?

Question:

I am spanked for infractions, though rarely. My husband’s neglect has put us in big trouble with IRS and the state. He agrees that for this, he must be disciplined. He suggested that a pro-disciplinarian should administer monthly floggings. I think that wastes money that could go to paying off overdue taxes. I would like to administer canings and floggings. He says this would undermine my discipline sessions. I say no, there are times he will admit guilt and submit, and oftentimes, he will be in charge. I would also invite a couple of witnesses to make it more humiliating and to make sure we don’t hit the sheets before it is really severe. What do u think? Perhaps the first time it should be a pro, and then I should do him. And once he bleeds, is it time to stop, or can I finish the planned number of strokes?

Answer:

Yes, I agree with why your husband needs to be held accountable for his neglect, but I agree with him that if you were to administer the punishment, then it would undermine his position as HoH if you carried out the spankings.  He is the head of your house, and you cannot punish him as you are the submissive partner. Do your parents or an elder relative know of your lifestyle?

Getting one of your fathers, uncle, elder brother, or even an older male that you both look up to administer the spanking would be a cheaper option if you don’t want to pay for a professional disciplinarian.
To add humiliation for your husband, this could be done in front of you.
Regarding the number of strokes, I do not recommend caning until he bleeds; breaking the skin could lead to infection, etc.   I would instead recommend monthly spankings until the debt he has caused has been earned and paid back by your husband.