The Importance of Rituals
In my small Christian community, women are raised to obey their husbands. And men are taught to be firm but loving authoritarians. My father in law told my husband never to spank me in anger. He said to send me to a corner until he calmed down.
It also gives me a chance to think about what I have done so I want to be punished. He has me say why I am being punished, pulls my pants down and bends me over. After my spanking, he rubs my bottom with lotion and tells me he doesn’t like to hurt me. It’s his responsibility to make sure I’m a good girl and asks if I understand.
I say Yes Sir. He has me step out of my pants so they don’t sting my bottom. And I am bottomless until he tells me when I can cover it and with what
All of that: the corner time, the admission of guilt, submission to punishment, the aftercare and waiting for permission to cover-up makes the difference between simple discipline and loving correction from someone to whom a woman truly believed she belongs.
You can tell the difference because you feel better afterwards instead of worse.
Submitted by: Anabel