I am a disciplined wife who has studied the psychology of punishment in order to be the wife God meant me to be.
Ordered nudity or partial nudity as a form of punishment has been a practice for hundreds of years. Exposure and vulnerability inspires submissiveness. And when the order is delivered by her husband, it makes the wife want to seek her husband’s approval through obedience, affection and proper self-subjugation to her sovereign. It reinforces the roles and reminds her that her body belongs to her husband to pleasure and punish at his will. The costume of a submissive such as a diaper, little girl dresses or a maids uniform is equally or more effective.
That is the husband’s responsibility: to instil submission, obedience, dependency and the proper respect and deference to her husband.
My husband dresses me in clothing that keeps my bottom exposed while we’re home alone. When he enters the room, I bend over presenting myself out of submission and always get a hard smack. I take off his shoes at the end of the day and sit at his feet while he plays with my hair. I use submissive language never calling him by his name, only Sir. I present the implement for punishment. And of course, I ask permission for everything.
When he has me strip to my underwear for punishment or a lecture, I hand my clothes to him and he tells me I can have them back when he decides. Our friends have never seen him spank me, but they have heard him order me to the bedroom to strip, bend over and wait for the paddle. Though just being around us its obvious who makes the rules and who follows them. I still call him Sir and ask permission for everything.
I never disrespect or disobey my husband. But I do get punished for not getting off the phone as soon as he walks in the door, sub-standard housework, and cursing or using language he finds unladylike. But because of our way of life, I rarely get punished.
This is the husband’s responsibility. If he instils submissiveness and obedience in a loving but firm manner, he is almost certain to get a submissive and loving wife.
Submitted by: Annabelle