A Spanking is not always the answer

Sometimes a hug and “I Love You” will do more good.
As HoH, you need to learn when to discipline and when to hug, not every transgression should end in punishment, you have to take the time to understand why your partner did what they did.

Do not act in haste think about what has happened and why it happened and then don’t spank them just because you can.
As HoH, you have to treasure your partner’s submission and trust if you spank without a justified reason and just for your gratification, then you will soon lose their trust and respect.