Living life as a submissive/disciplined wife it, not an oppressive life, instead it is liberating because you are unloading lots of everyday responsibility to your HoH.  They carry the burden of making the decisions, making sure the bills are paid and most importantly taking care of your mental and physical wellbeing.

You are free to get on with the important things, such as looking after your home, taking care of your HoH and any hobbies you have.
You do not have to spend your days worrying about paying bills, making day to day decisions that eat away at your day.