Dealing with Money In A Domestic Discipline Marriage

The HoH should control the household budget; all money coming into the home should be responsible.

It does not matter who earns the most money all income should pass to the HoH they are responsible for seeing that the money is there to pay the bills, mortgage, car, etc.

The HoH will decide on the budget, and their word will be the final word.
The HoH must see that you adhere to the budget at all times any overspending could place the family in debt and have severe financial consequences.
As HoH it is expected that you will be fair with the money, it is a poor HoH who does not share the spare cash.

If The TiH does not stick to the budget and does not have an acceptable reason for overspending, they should be held accountable.

If the TiH has to go over the budget, they should first ask permission to spend, or if it is not possible to ask first, they will have to have a valid reason for spending or risk punishment.

It is a good practice for the TiH to keep records of how they have spent the money they have for housekeeping etc., so if the HoH wants to check, they can provide proof of spending.

Any personal spending money should not be accounted for, as this is theirs to spend freely.