The world has changed, modern life & financial pressure now requires both partners to work; also, many wives want a fulfilling career and being married.

As HOH, you must support your  TIH in their career choice, just because they work it does not mean they can not be a TIH partner.
It would be unfair to ask your  TIH to sta home all day tending to the house when they would like to have a career; you are their  HOH and must respect their wishes.

You must discuss how this will work in your relationship, where possible once the TIH arrives home, they should leave work at the front door and concentrate on being the TIH partner.

Here are five tips to help cope with a Career/Working TIH & Domestic Discipline

1: Change from your work clothing into clothing that pleads your HOH as soon as you arrive home

2: Do not bring work into the home (unless you have a job where you need to work at home)

3: If you have to work at homestay within the agreed working hours

4: As HOH you need to allow your TIH the time to do her work

5: If the TIH partner is in a position of authority at work they have to

remember that their HOH is in charge at home, and if necessary he should remind her of this.