Domestic Discipline and Single People
More and more, I am being contacted by single ladies who want to add rules and boundaries to their lives. These women tend to be over thirty years of age; some are divorcees with or without children, and others are widows, and some have never been in a relationship. After having lived a couple of years as a single person not having to be accountable to anyone for their actions, they come to realise how much they miss having rules and boundaries in their lives.
Having rules and boundaries in their lives makes them feel safe and secure; not being accountable to someone for your actions can be a lonely world. While they do not want a relationship in their lives at this current time, they do want the security having rules and boundaries gives them.
The common problems I get asked for help are health and diet, procrastination, attitude towards others, controlling their spending habits, appearance, and household chores.
Another issue I get asked for is preparing ladies for their next relationship when they are ready; often, they have looked back on failed relationships and realised that they could have done things better.
This year has seen a significant increase in home workers, and many do not have the self-discipline to manage their days, they miss the discipline of going to work and having a boss holding them accountable. For some home, working is a lonely place, and their families are full of distractions like social media, Netflix, pets etc.
Are you one of these ladies?
Having to be accountable at the end of your day for your actions fills a void in your life, it gives you a feeling of calm and security. Knowing that someone will hold you accountable if you don’t get your work done or don’t look after your health or control your impulse spending.
It is incredible how much is recklessly spent on online shopping in an evening while browsing the internet; many of the items bought are never used or worn.
Knowing there will be consequences for your actions is often all it takes.
If you would like to discuss how putting some rules and boundaries in your life, contact me today, and we can discuss what will work best for you. All enquires are in the strictest confidence.
The service I offer is not a sexual service.
The service I offer is a professional one, and I do charge a fee for my time, I will be happy to discuss your issues and then give you a no-obligation quote.
