Domestic Discipline Testing His Word

Recently I was contacted by a married woman who has entered the Domestic Discipline lifestyle with her husband this year.  Everything is very new to them still,  but she did have a question at the back of her mind.  She knew her husband enjoyed the unique lifestyle and knew that he would not / did not hesitate to dish out the punishments when required.

Her question was.  Should her husband stop spanking her if she withdrew her consent, and what would be the effect on the relationship?. The issue played on her mind more and more so during a recent argument in the heat of the moment; she withdrew her permission, which she regretted straight away. Still, she now had to satisfy her curiosity and see what his reaction would be.

True to his word, he did not even try to spank her, and there was a very uneasy atmosphere between them. The situation carried on longer than she expected, it was like somebody had built an invisible wall between them, she could tell he was not happy, but he never tried to persuade her to change her mind.  They carried on with a more vanilla marriage for three weeks.  Eventually, she told him they had to talk; she said to him she was grateful that he had respected her wishes, but she could not understand why he had not tried to change her mind.

He told her he had given his word that she could stop living the lifestyle it at any time and if there was to be any chance of this Domestic Discipline lifestyle working her husband knew that she had to know he every word he had said.

A question she had for me was “was I right to test my husband like this”.
I think yes she was entirely right to do this, the gift of submission is a very special gif, and you need to know without a doubt that you have given it to the right person.
Each relationship is different, and we must always do what is right for us.  If you feel you need to test your HoH, you must do so, but you also, owe it to them to fully explain why you did what you did and assure them that this will not be a regular thing.